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The frequency of student violence at school is increasing. The more often parents hear about it, the more concerned they become for the safety of their children. What might cause a young person to commit such a horrible crime?
These teens have serious personal problems. Signs to watch for are:
- isolation and withdrawal signifying the loss of a healthy balance in life
- a history of aggressive behavior toward other children or animals
- the use of alcohol or drugs, which reduces inhibition
- a negative peer group that could influence him to try something
- no solid connection to positive adults who can provide guidance
What can parents do when their child is being threatened?
Don’t ignore it. But don’t over-react. Listen carefully to your child. Get as much information as you can about the child who made the threat. Listen to your child’s conversations with his or her friends to see if they are concerned.
How can you tell if this is a serious threat?
Every threat is serious these days. Know your kids. Be able to tell if their concerns are valid. If you have asked all the questions and you are still concerned, then it is serious. Get professional help – FAST. Call a counselor, a school official, your clergy or the police.
What if you suspect that your own child is the one that might cause harm to others?
Again, know your own kid. Make sure you stay connected with his feelings. Be realistic -- What is your child’s history? Is she aggressive toward others? Has he harmed animals in the past? Who influences your teen? How?
Does your teen have access to weapons? Does he know how to use them? Do you think he has a plan? If you are concerned, ASK FOR HELP. Don’t let too much time pass because you don’t want to believe it is possible.
et someone else know your concern right away. A counselor will know how serious the situation is and will help you understand your options. If you believe your adolescent or teen has a problem with anger, don’t delay. Call Heartland Family Service for more information.
For more information call 553-3000 or toll-free (877) 553-3001 or email info@heartlandfamilyservice.org
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